Authentic connections for genuine people. Our identity verification process is designed to help you discover meaningful relationships with greater confidence.
Every feature is designed to help protect your authenticity and connect you with genuine people who have completed our identity verification process.
Users complete a biometric identity verification step using facial recognition technology, designed to help reduce catfishing, bots, and AI-generated fake profiles.
Cutting-Edge TechnologyOur matching algorithm considers your preferences and personality to suggest compatible matches based on more than surface-level attractions.
AI-EnhancedEncrypted conversations designed to help keep your personal details safe. Share what you want, when you're ready.
EncryptedView compatibility insights based on values, interests, lifestyle, and communication style to help inform your matching decisions.
Multi-DimensionalProfile photos are compared against verification selfies, designed to help you see the real person behind the profile.
Anti-Catfish TechDesigned to comply with BIPA, CCPA, and applicable state biometric laws. Your biometric data is processed securely and is not sold to third parties. See our Biometric Policy for details.
Legally CompliantGet verified once and enjoy a dating experience built on trust and genuine connection.
Sign up and tell us about yourself — your interests, values, and what you're looking for.
Complete a quick biometric scan. Our system matches your live selfie to your photos and check to see if you're a bot, AI, or deepfake.
Our algorithm finds compatible, verified users based on deep personality and preference analysis.
Start meaningful conversations with people who have completed identity verification, giving you greater confidence in who you're talking to.
Date The Real Me is built with safety as a core priority, with multiple layers of security designed to help protect you throughout your dating experience.
Facial matching technology designed to help confirm that users are real people matching their submitted photos. Verification requires user consent.
Messages, photos, and personal data are encrypted in transit and at rest, designed to help keep your conversations between you and your match.
Designed to comply with Illinois BIPA, Texas biometric laws, and California CCPA. Your biometric data is handled in accordance with applicable legal standards. See our policies for details.
Hear from verified users who have found genuine connections through Date The Real Me.*
After dealing with fake profiles on other apps, DRM felt different. The verification process gave me confidence that the people I was talking to were genuine. I met my partner within a few months of joining.
The verification process took two minutes and gave me so much peace of mind. I could actually focus on getting to know people instead of wondering if they were real.
Having been catfished before, I really valued DRM's approach to identity verification. I felt more confident from the start. I'm now in a wonderful relationship that I found through the app.
Start free, upgrade when you're ready. All plans include identity verification. Pricing may vary by platform.
Join a growing community of verified users who value authenticity and are ready for genuine connections.
Free plan available. Must be 18 or older to join. Terms apply.